Who is couples therapy for?

Couples therapy is for partners who want to better understand their relationship, improve communication, and create healthier ways of responding to one another.

You do not have to be on the verge of separation to benefit from couples therapy. Some couples come in because they are constantly arguing, while others have become emotionally distant and feel more like roommates than partners. Others are entering a new chapter—marriage, pregnancy, parenting, blended families, career changes, relocation, or other major life transitions—and want support navigating the changes together.

Couples therapy may be helpful if you are:

• Having the same arguments repeatedly
• Struggling with communication
• Experiencing emotional distance or disconnection
• Dealing with trust or relationship injuries
• Struggling with intimacy or affection
• Navigating parenting or family challenges
• Experiencing conflict around finances, responsibilities, or expectations
• Adjusting to a major life transition
• Considering whether to stay together or separate
• Wanting to strengthen an already healthy relationship

You don’t have to wait until your relationship is in crisis to ask for help.

What problems do you help with?

We help couples explore the patterns that keep them stuck rather than simply focusing on who is right or wrong.

Common concerns include:

Communication problems
You talk, but don’t feel heard—or conversations quickly turn into arguments, defensiveness, or silence.

Recurring conflict
You keep having the same disagreement without reaching a meaningful resolution.

Emotional disconnection
You love each other but feel distant, disconnected, or unsure how to reconnect.

Pursue/withdraw patterns
One partner wants to talk immediately while the other shuts down, withdraws, or needs space.

Trust and relationship repair
You are trying to rebuild the relationship after hurt, disappointment, broken trust, or another significant relationship injury.

Life transitions
Marriage, pregnancy, parenting, blended families, career changes, relocation, grief, or other transitions can change the relationship dynamic.

Separation or relationship uncertainty
You may be questioning the future of the relationship and need a safe space to understand what you actually want.

Our goal isn’t simply to stop the argument. It’s to help you understand the pattern underneath the argument and develop healthier ways of responding to one another.

What happens in the first session?

The first session is an opportunity for us to understand your relationship from both perspectives.

We’ll discuss what brought you to therapy, what has been happening, how each of you experiences the relationship, and what you hope will change.

You may be asked questions such as:

• What brought you to therapy now?
• What is working in your relationship?
• What feels most difficult?
• What happens when conflict occurs?
• How do you each typically respond when you feel hurt or misunderstood?
• What would you like your relationship to look like six months from now?

We will also begin identifying the patterns that may be contributing to the conflict.

You don’t need to arrive with everything figured out. You simply need to be willing to begin the conversation.

How does couples therapy work?

Couples therapy isn’t about determining which partner is the problem.

We look at the relationship system and the patterns between you.

For example:

One partner feels ignored → they pursue the conversation more intensely → the other feels overwhelmed → they withdraw → the first partner feels even more abandoned → the conflict escalates.

Both partners may experience themselves as reacting reasonably to the other person while unintentionally creating a cycle that keeps the conflict going.

Therapy helps you slow that cycle down.

Together, we work on:

Understanding the pattern → identifying emotions and needs → communicating more effectively → responding differently → repairing after conflict → building new patterns.

Depending on your needs, therapy may incorporate approaches such as cognitive-behavioral, solution-focused, emotionally informed, motivational, and relational interventions.

The goal is to give you skills you can actually use outside the therapy room.

How long do couples typically participate?

There is no universal number of sessions that works for every couple.

Some couples seek short-term support around a specific problem or life transition. Others benefit from longer-term therapy when they are addressing deeply established patterns, significant relationship injuries, or multiple areas of conflict.

Rather than keeping you in therapy indefinitely, we focus on your goals and your progress.

Throughout treatment, we can ask:

Are we moving toward the relationship you want?

Your treatment needs may also change over time. A couple may begin with frequent sessions while addressing a crisis and later move to less frequent sessions for maintenance, continued growth, or check-ins.

Do you work with LGBTQIA+ couples?

Yes.

We provide affirming and respectful care for LGBTQIA+ couples and individuals.

Your relationship does not need to fit a traditional model for your experiences to be taken seriously.

Therapy provides space to explore communication, intimacy, conflict, identity, family dynamics, trust, life transitions, and other relationship concerns without assuming that there is only one “right” way for a relationship to look.

Our focus is on your relationship, your goals, your values, and what a healthy relationship means to you.

Do you work with high-conflict couples?

We can work with couples experiencing significant conflict, provided couples therapy is clinically appropriate and safe.

High conflict doesn’t necessarily mean that a relationship cannot be repaired. Sometimes couples have developed intense patterns of criticism, defensiveness, withdrawal, escalation, or difficulty regulating emotions during disagreements.

Therapy can help slow those patterns down and create a more productive way to communicate.

However, not every relationship problem is appropriate for standard conjoint couples therapy. Situations involving ongoing violence, coercive control, intimidation, or other significant safety concerns require careful clinical assessment and may require a different level or structure of care.

The first priority is always safety and clinical appropriateness.

Do you work with couples considering separation?

Yes.

You don’t have to know whether you want to stay together before beginning therapy.

Some couples come to therapy saying:

“We want to save our relationship.”

Others say:

“We don’t know if this relationship can be repaired.”

And some are trying to determine whether separation is the healthiest path forward.

Therapy can provide a structured environment to slow the decision-making process down, understand what has happened, communicate more effectively, and clarify what each partner wants.

The goal isn’t to pressure you to stay together or push you toward separation.

The goal is to help you make thoughtful decisions based on greater clarity rather than reacting in the middle of emotional conflict.

What if one partner doesn’t want therapy?

This is extremely common.

One partner may be ready for therapy while the other thinks:

“I’m not the problem.”

or:

“We’ve already tried talking.”

or:

“Therapy isn’t going to change anything.”

You don’t necessarily need two enthusiastic people walking through the door.

If one partner is hesitant, the first step may be understanding what makes them uncomfortable about therapy.

You can invite them into the process without forcing them.

If appropriate, individual sessions may also help a person understand their own responses, communication patterns, boundaries, and goals while the couple determines what comes next.

What we don’t want is for therapy to become another place where one partner is trying to prove that the other person is wrong.

Instead, the question becomes:

“What is happening between us, and what can each of us do differently?”

Sometimes that shift—from blame to curiosity—is where meaningful change begins.

How much does it cost?

Rates & Insurance

Session Rate

Individual Therapy Private Pay $120
Couple Therapy Private Pay $140

Some Insurance accepted based on Affiliated Groups associated with Motivation 2 Solutions Institute

How do we schedule?

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You don’t have to figure it all out before you reach out.

Maybe you’re fighting too much.

Maybe you’re barely talking.

Maybe you love each other but don’t know how to reconnect.

Maybe you’re entering a new chapter and want to make sure your relationship grows with you.

Or maybe you’re simply wondering whether things can be different.

Couples therapy can give you a place to slow down, understand the pattern, and decide what comes next.

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Let’s start with understanding what’s happening—not deciding who’s to blame.